heyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyheyhey

i wonder why some people wont say those word of encouraging but instead hurting people
i mean,sometime when a person ish trying to do a thing very hard and seriously
and the person around him/her never even encourage them but instead say they are not good lah,useless lah,try so hard also no use lah, this kind of word ,especially when they are your friend .

maybe they are straight forward,but cant they use their brain and think one meh,they are hurting other people heart.instead of giving them morale,the person start to give up and think they are hopeless.